By Davina Skinner

None of us live perfect, harmonious lives and often are out of balance for one reason or another, and the person displaying an out of balance blue aura will often relate to many of the characteristics or traits below.

Sometimes those with a blue aura will experience just that, the blues! They may become quiet, withdrawn and might even be experiencing bouts of depression.

They make wonderful caregivers but may not have given themselves an awful lot of care and nurturing, confusing their own need for love with a sense of being selfish. Sometimes taken to an extreme they may be holding on to some deep resentment, finding it hard to forgive old hurts and disappointments.

Out of balance they may be inclined to be much more verbal in arguments or just more argumentative.

They often find it hard to say no to requests for help and because they may be too quick to forgive, wanting to return to a peaceful calm atmosphere they can find themselves the victim of bullying or abuse, at work or at home.

If they are not able to express themselves enough, the individual with an out of balance blue aura may be experiencing throat or sinus problems, anything linked to their airways and their ability to voice their true opinions.

They may be a little too sensitive as some find it hard to relate to the fact that not everyone is as naturally open to giving and caring to the same extent as themselves.

The blue aura out of balance can be prone to gaining weight, partly due to the tendency of a lack of exercise and partly due to holding on to something, which can link to a dislike of change which threatens their sense of safety and security.

They may be finding it very hard to express exactly how they feel, especially if they deem the emotions to be negative, such as anger, as they tend to be naturally quiet and placid when in harmony.

So these emotions are stored or shelved and not allowed to flow and be dealt with and released, which causes them more distress and discomfort.

As well as being the color of communication it is also a color of change and one of the challenges to us all is to embrace change in its many guises but most of us find that incredibly hard to do.

Out of balance blues might lack self confidence or find that it is very easily bruised, often hearing a brief comment of criticism, they will hold onto that replaying it over in their mind, at the same time as not hearing the hundreds of good comments made about them.

They may feel responsible for things that they really do not need to and can appear overly apologetic or may actually say that they are sorry many times a day.

They usually like to be around people rather than be on their own and sometimes this need overrides their rational ability to discern whether those people are actually good for them to be associated with at all.

About The Author

Davina is a natural intuitive, hypnotherapist and Reiki Master, she has a common sense, easy to understand attitude to the whole subject of the human spirit.
You can discover more about the meaning of colors at http://www.secretaura.com