By Landon Wiggs

Subtle signs are oftentimes the most obvious codes of all. If you'’ve just recently declared yourself single and is now leading a solo life, times maybe really hard for you. However, things become a lot more difficult to understand especially when the one who breaks your heart suddenly makes gestures that are both confusing and puzzling on your part.

So how do you know of signs your ex wants you back? Here are simple yet clear motions signaling that your ex is still into you. Check this out:

1. Old routines are still present - One indication that your ex-partner still wants to go on with the relationship is when you both agreed to go separate ways, yet one is unable to let go of the old routines (e.g. calling you from time to time, house visitation, asking how your day goes, and other nittty-gritty couples do). When these routinely acts transpire, it is of the essence that you try to brazen out things you find puzzling. If your ex-partner couldn'’t seem to unfetter your regular routines as partners, ask him/her what he/she wants to do with the situation. If your ex wants to compromise and patch things up, this is one sign you shouldn'’t dare miss.

2. Your ex does things that are unusual and out of the ordinary - This is just one of those signs your ex wants you back. Arriving 1 hour before the designated time, being extra sweet and understanding, and making unusual and surprising gestures are some of the signals that your ex still has special feelings for you. Just imagine this: No ex-lover that recently broke up with his/her significant other would get into sweet nothings without any implications. So if you'’re encountering these perplexing actions from your ex, the signs are clear to understand: You still got his/her heart.

3. He treats you like a queen, she treats you like a king - It is so amazing how treatments can spell ones innermost intention towards another. If your ex-boyfriend suddenly become a slave to your every need and does things to your heart’’s desire, then that is one of those signs your ex wants you back. On the other hand, if your ex-girlfriend suddenly gives in to whatever you tell her you want her to do, then there’’s no question about it, she’’s still madly and deeply in love with you.

4. Willingness to change - If you see an act of readiness and enthusiasm in your ex-partner’’s attitude, then it simply means that he/she is willing to change for the better. Your ex is eager to do everything just to make the relationship work once more. Change is good, and if your ex-lover uses this sign to relay his/her message of love to you, you must be prepared to respond to his/her actions.

The above-mentioned signs are easy to decipher. You just have to be very observant and resilient to subtle signs that somehow become understandable and noticeable to its recipient. And, that recipient is YOU.

About The Author

Landon Wiggs is a dating expert and likes to give dating advice and tips.

By Jim Cunningham

Sex and guys seem synonymous. But you, dear lady, probably do not know what your man really thinks about sex. Most do not. The popular opinion is that guys are dogs and if you feed them and sex them, they are content. That may be true for a few breeds, but not most. Let us look at one aspect of sexuality that we will refer to as the right amount of sleaze.

The old adage is that guys may like to look at a slut, but he does not want to marry one. There is some truth to that. Most men do not want their woman to be slutty. However, most women have the opinion that is how she turns him on.

The balance is the right amount of sleaze. Here is a question for you: Which will turn on your man most, walking into the room totally naked or barely covered? Even though he eventually wants you totally uncovered. there is hardly anything sexier than having to use his imagination…just a little.

He is a hunter and gatherer by nature. He needs a little resistance for the chase. Do not misunderstand, neither is he interested in a nun, unless he is a pervert. Do not give it all up at once. Hide just a little. A sheer nighty is fun. Or a silky robe not tied loosely, you know, a little cleavage, is a turn on.

The word tantalize means either to torment or tease. It promises that which is unobtainable. It excites the senses or desires. Are you following? Do you have any idea what this does to a guy. He will be licking your toes - well, maybe not that far, but he will be insane.

If sex is purely animalistic then just turn around and get it over with. But if it is on the level of intimacy, then work up to it.

Bring in to play as many of his senses as you can. This makes for a more total experience. Electric currents will ricashae through his body like a pen ball machine. Everything will be standing at attention.

Consider your scent. There is just something about scent that drives a guy crazy. Take him with you when you choose one. It will have lasting effects. If you hug him goodbye the next morning and your scent lingers on his clothing, he will be reminded of you all day.

Do not speak things of a sexual nature out loud, rather whisper it into his ear. Tell him what you want in bed - he likes that. Tell him what you are going to do to him. It will send chills up his spine. But blow it in his ear with the softness only you possess.

What is sexy about blurting it out? It comes off as a little rough. He may still get a little turned on by that approach, but nothing like your soft breath whispering in his sensitive ear. It will cover him with chills.

It is the tease we are talking about. Every man loses control under the tease. Become a master and he will become a slave. You have the control, so use it wisely and effectively. His heart will beat for you. He will melt over you like hot butter. Sparks, that is what I am talking about. Flames, out of control, with the right amount of sleaze.

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