By Jim Cunningham

Sex and guys seem synonymous. But you, dear lady, probably do not know what your man really thinks about sex. Most do not. The popular opinion is that guys are dogs and if you feed them and sex them, they are content. That may be true for a few breeds, but not most. Let us look at one aspect of sexuality that we will refer to as the right amount of sleaze.

The old adage is that guys may like to look at a slut, but he does not want to marry one. There is some truth to that. Most men do not want their woman to be slutty. However, most women have the opinion that is how she turns him on.

The balance is the right amount of sleaze. Here is a question for you: Which will turn on your man most, walking into the room totally naked or barely covered? Even though he eventually wants you totally uncovered. there is hardly anything sexier than having to use his imagination…just a little.

He is a hunter and gatherer by nature. He needs a little resistance for the chase. Do not misunderstand, neither is he interested in a nun, unless he is a pervert. Do not give it all up at once. Hide just a little. A sheer nighty is fun. Or a silky robe not tied loosely, you know, a little cleavage, is a turn on.

The word tantalize means either to torment or tease. It promises that which is unobtainable. It excites the senses or desires. Are you following? Do you have any idea what this does to a guy. He will be licking your toes - well, maybe not that far, but he will be insane.

If sex is purely animalistic then just turn around and get it over with. But if it is on the level of intimacy, then work up to it.

Bring in to play as many of his senses as you can. This makes for a more total experience. Electric currents will ricashae through his body like a pen ball machine. Everything will be standing at attention.

Consider your scent. There is just something about scent that drives a guy crazy. Take him with you when you choose one. It will have lasting effects. If you hug him goodbye the next morning and your scent lingers on his clothing, he will be reminded of you all day.

Do not speak things of a sexual nature out loud, rather whisper it into his ear. Tell him what you want in bed - he likes that. Tell him what you are going to do to him. It will send chills up his spine. But blow it in his ear with the softness only you possess.

What is sexy about blurting it out? It comes off as a little rough. He may still get a little turned on by that approach, but nothing like your soft breath whispering in his sensitive ear. It will cover him with chills.

It is the tease we are talking about. Every man loses control under the tease. Become a master and he will become a slave. You have the control, so use it wisely and effectively. His heart will beat for you. He will melt over you like hot butter. Sparks, that is what I am talking about. Flames, out of control, with the right amount of sleaze.

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By Sharon Taylor

Maybe you are currently part of a couple, or maybe there is a certain someone that is making you think about becoming a couple. In either case, asking meaningful questions of one another just might give a good indication of a couple’’s chances for a successful relationship. There are probably more questions than a person could count. For purposes of this discussion let us give a finite number. 1000 questions for couple review seems like a great place to begin.

There are many issues that help form a basis for a compatible couple, and if you are not compatible with your mate or your intended mate, the relationship probably will not last. So what makes two people compatible? There are simple, seemingly trivial things that help create compatibility, and there are very basic, fundamental issues that are also very important to a couple’’s success.

Sharing common interests and tastes account for the simple things that might seem trivial at first glance. Ask your intended mate what type of music or movies they like. Maybe the object of your affection does not like music of any kind, and you love all types of music. One half of the couple loves music so much that it is an integral part of her life. She loves to dance. She loves to go to concerts, and even wants to read and talk about music. The other half of the couple wants to watch sports on the television, and you could not pay him to actually dance.

Let us say that both of the people in the couple like music, but they like completely different types of music. She plays the harp and loves classical music. He likes to listen rap music, while she finds the lyrics offensive. This could be a problem.

Maybe you have just met someone, and the chemistry is undeniable. You want to be with that person all the time, even if you do not know anything about them. This is a visceral reaction founded on a combination of plain old fashion lust and your perception of that person. Once lust is satisfied, it can be very transient and go up in a puff of smoke. If you imbue your mate with qualities you think that should have and create an unrealistic perception in your mind, you could be in for a most unpleasant surprise.

It works well when couples share a common belief system or a common set of values. This does not mean that persons that do not share the same religious belief will not make a successful couple. But if two people do not share the same underlying value system, discord is inevitable.

Money may not be the first thing that comes to mind when you think about forming a couple, but is certainly one of the major causes of friction in marriages. Ask your intended if he or she has a lot of debt. Do they have a savings account? Do they make a very good income; yet barely get by from week to week? If couples do not share values concerning money, it is a recipe for disaster.

What about children? Do you share a desire to have children? Do you share a desire to not have children? If you do not really care for children, but your intended has four children, it would probably be in yours and his best interest to look elsewhere for a romantic partner.

These are just a few of important issues that couples should consider. There are 1000 questions for couple review. These are some of the issues that should give rise to probing questions for each half of the couple to make an informed decision.

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